Is there a secret I don’t know about? I see all these cute dresses & tops where the back or sides are cut so low that a bra would show and I think, are these only made for the young/paid-for perky boobed chicks or is there a way to wear them while also being supported.

This is the dress that prompted this internal debate today…

But for the life of me, I can’t figure out how to wear it.  Okay, TMI, but after two kids, my girls need  support when I leave the house.  I’m not 18, I can’t go braless and look as cute as the model does.  It’s just sad looking when I try to do it.

So, help a girl out.  Is there a way to wear something like this if you need to be supported?

And a flattening tube top is NOT an option!

Maybe you wear a bra and just plan to keep a sweater or jacket on the whole time?

I usually look at pieces like this and quickly dismiss them since I know I can’t go braless, but today I’m wondering if I maybe dismiss them too quickly.

Or maybe the answer is the exact thing I’ve been telling myself, “nope, you can’t wear that and get away with it.  Move along!”  🙂