I have (had) nothing to wear!

Yes, I know, a post about fashion when I just blogged about my waning interest in fashion? Trust me, the irony is not lost on me.  lol.  I’m just blogging what I’m thinking and this happens to be it. Apparently I’m a walking contradiction. 😛

Nevertheless…on with the post…

I always complain I have nothing to wear, but I’m not kidding this time.  I’m going to a wedding tonight and I literally had NOTHING to wear.

Between gaining a few pounds over the last year, not having a ton of dressy clothes in the first place and the fact that it’s an evening wedding, I had nothing in my closet that was appropriate.

So, I had to go shopping (#sorrynotsorry)!  I needed to find something that, 1. FIT and 2. worked for an evening wedding.  Bonus points if I got a good deal!

After spending 3+ hours these were the best I got and of this 6, there were only about half that were truly wearable.

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1. This dress was at Loft.  It was okay.  Basic and black.  It would work in a pinch, but I personally I like a little more pizazz than that.  Not to mention, I needed a smaller size so I would have had to order it.

2. This jumpsuit was nice (similar here), but I would have to get the top altered (too big) and there was just something about it that didn’t work for me.

3. I had to pour myself into this Antonio Melani dress, but it was my favorite by far.  I loved the colors and shape of the dress.  Downside was that it showed even the slightest belly bulge so I wouldn’t have been able to eat that night and the wedding was going to be outside in 80 degree weather and I wasn’t too keen on being a sweaty mess.

4. This dress (similar) was nice and it fit.  Did I love it?  No, but it was good enough and met my top 2 requirements and was on sale f$56, so it was a strong contender.

5. After my hubs told me he preferred me not to wear a jumpsuit, he changed his mind and said maybe, if it was dressy enough. Well, THIS one (similar) fit the bill and I was instantly in love with it. It doesn’t look super amazing in this pic, but trust me, it looks great in person.  Plus, it fit all 3 requirements, it was super comfy and I loved it!

6. I was in total lust with this jumpsuit at Loft and would have died for it, but unfortunately it didn’t fit right.  :'(

I think you can guess which one was the winner for me, but I’ll make sure to get a pic with my outfit all put together and post it later!  🙂

tales from the dressing room…

Ah, shopping.  It’s been a few weeks since I’ve been shopping.  I love getting out and just seeing what’s out there.  I know you should probably go when you need something in particular so you don’t impulse buy, but my experience is that I can never find what I’m looking for when I actually need it.

I always take snaps in the dressing room so 1) I can see how it photographs/looks on me and 2) so if I choose not to buy it, I can look at the photo later and maybe decide that I need to go back and get it! *I should note, I didn’t take photos of only the things I loved.  I took photos of some of the “eh” things too. Sometimes my mind plays tricks on me and I start thinking, maybe that one dress wasn’t that bad.  Now I have photos to prove that I didn’t buy it for a reason!  🙂

I would rather shop just to shop, but yesterday I was on a mission.  I need to find a dress for my brothers wedding in a few weeks.  I already bought a dress, but I’ve been second guessing it and if I’m second guessing it, it must not be “the one”.  So, today I decided to see what else was out there.  And, to be honest, I didn’t see much!  Either it didn’t fit right, wasn’t the right look or was just plain ugly!

First stop…Anthropologie

photo 2-2left side :: I picked it off the rack because I love blue & green.  However the fit was not good and the high neck wasn’t particularly flattering on me.

right side :: Loved the fit and feel of this dress.  The side panels give the illusion of a slimmer silhouette and the material was a stretchy cotton with no zippers or buttons.  Very comfy!  But, not right for the wedding.

I know I was supposed to be looking for dresses for a wedding, but I often see something that I just *have* to try on even though it’s not what I’m supposed to be shopping for.  When I picked up this next dress, I had no clue that I would LOVE it quite as much as I did.

photo 1-3Let me tell you…this is the most amazeballs dress I’ve tried on in awhile!

I read on a blog recently that you should only buy a dress when it makes you “feel” something. Whether it’s “cute”, “flirty”, “sexy”, “professional”, “pretty”, etc….you should feel it when you put the dress on.  I should have definitely bought this dress because it made me feel incredible when I put it on.  Seriously fell madly in love with it.  I had to get one of the sales girls to zip it up in the back and when I was out in the main dressing area, everyone ooh’d & ahh’d over it.  If you like it in the pictures, you will die when you see it in person.  Am I getting my point across yet?  Seriously…uh-mazing!  Sadly, I have no where to wear it and it’s way too expensive and pretty to just hang in my closet.  My hubby told me to buy it anyways and I am really debating it, but unless I get an invitation to an event this would be appropriate for or someone gives me a feasible idea of where to wear it, it will have to stay at the store.  🙁

This next pic is half Anthropologie and half Gap…

photo 5left side :: from Anthropologie.  I saw this outfit (pants, here) on a mannequin (plus a yellow button down shirt, but I couldn’t find the shirt) and absolutely adored the striped french bulldog sweater.  Good news, I loved it!  Bad news…I didn’t bother to check the price tag and both the pants & the sweater were $98 EACH!  Too much for this particular shopping trip so I put them back on the rack.  I will be watching the sweater online though to see if it goes on sale because I desperately need it for my fall/winter wardrobe.

ride side :: from GAP.  Camo!  Yes, I did try on the exact (but different brands) outfit I had on the other day.  In hindsight the shirt was really comfy and I probably should have gotten it.  You can’t ever have enough grey shirts!  The pants were cute, but not all that different from the pants I have already so I passed on them.  Shirt/Pants

Next set is from Dillard’s….

photo 3-2I had terrible luck at Dillard’s.  This dress on the left was just okay, but definitely not the look I wanted.  The dress on the right I had such high hopes for and loved the color (green & blue), but the skirt didn’t lay right and the top was too boxy & big.

Lastly, Ann Taylor…

photo 4-1My SIL should probably earn a commission from me with this one.  She sent me the link to this dress online and told me I should try it on for the wedding.  I thought it was beautiful, but at the time I had just bought my other dress so I didn’t bother going to check it out.  Turns out, she’s a dang good stylist!  I wouldn’t have given this a second glance online.  I just don’t have the eye.  I dismiss items way too quickly unless I see them styled a way I like.  But I remembered that she pointed it out and I wanted to try it on now that I was shopping for a new dress.  Just so happens that it was the best dress I tried on all day!  It’s on hold for me as I’m still deciding.  It’s a petite size and I don’t normally consider myself a “petite” in clothing so I didn’t want to impulse buy it.  It fits like a glove, but under the arms is cut pretty high (probably b/c it’s a petite!) and I’m worried it will rub and bother me.  I’m going to go back today and try it on again.

*edited to add…I went back to try on the Ann Taylor dress and loved it more than the first time so I bought it! 🙂

That’s all for my dressing room fashion!  I tried on lots more, but these were the highlights (& lowlights).